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Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Happy 6th Birthday Lenea

 I can't believe it has been 6 years already since Lenea was born. What a wonderful joy she has brought to our family and to my life specifically. She is the one who says to me almost every day,
"Mommy, I just love you so much and I can't stop saying it!", while the same time giving me a big hug. It melts my heart and I just want time to stand still.


My oldest "baby" from my tummy turns 22 in just a few days and then my youngest is now 6. Time is just going so quickly. I have some moments where I just wish I could close my eyes and relive just an hour with them as a baby in my arms, protecting them, snuggling them and keeping the bad away from their hearts. 

Most of the time I don't have time to think about that though, as I have 3, almost 4 little 3 year olds that need me so much and even though they aren't technically infants they are in many ways.

But Today, I celebrate Lenea Maureen...my joy, my sweetness, my baby girl gone so big all of a sudden. She starts school away from home in just a few weeks. It is not homeschooling the way I have done all the siblings before her and there is some bitter sweet to our decision. However, I know it was she needs and what is best for our family today. And she is SO excited to go to school like her older siblings do. 

On a side note, Eliza is coming back home to do school with me, which I am so excited for as well. I have also decided to bring all the kids home on Wednesdays, where we will do their "homework" altogether at home. It will give them a time for my "home time" together, Makenna and me less driving, and some practice with our homeschooling schedule again. It is my heart's desire to homeschool some day altogether again, so we will see. For now, I love our private tutoring school in our church. It really has been a huge blessing and help to our chaotic schedule. All of our children are catching up in areas they were behind in and them some more.

Here are some photos of Birthday Girl!! She had
to go the allergist for shots today, bummer..but she did get to go ice skating, have lots of presents, pizza and brownies and strawberry ice cream for dinner as well as an extra special birthday call from Tyler and Emily.  I would say her day was a huge blessing. Happy Birthday Sweet Lenea. May I have the wonderful privilege of spending many more New Year's Eves celebrating your birthday. I couldn't think of a better way to celebrate.









Saturday, September 14, 2013

Growing Up

Lenea will be 6 on December 31st...

Yesterday, she pulled out her first baby tooth, with the help of Makenna. She has atleast one more to follow shortly and a few more in the works for the coming months.

She was so brave about it and she looks so stinking cute.....She is so proud, showing everyone and has an obsession about the way it feels.


I did shed a few Mama tears though, as it seems whenever those baby teeth start to come out and the adult teeth emerge the "rest is history". What I mean is that the "baby" years really are gone now. My baby girl is growing up, too fast.



 This was just about 30 minutes before the tooth came out.



This is not a "real" photo, but a staged one. Makenna did help her pull it out though.


Proud moment. I pay $5 for the first tooth, as an incentive for our kiddos to pull it out. That first tooth can be a bit scary. But she did really well. The subsequent teeth get $2 each.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Lenea's Life Decisions


Lenea insists (after watching a very non-graphic birth from Moody Science Video) that she does not want to get married if having a baby is like that. I must say while it was real footage, it was mild and nothing was shown at all. She asked me if having a baby hurt and I said "yes, it does hurt, but it is worth it and they do have medicines to help take away the hurt"..(sorry I don't have issues with medicines or epidurals to help mothers.  I have educated myself and have had all types of births, including natural, by choice).

So this is our little recording of her saying this. However, she badly wants to be a Mommy. In fact, she just told me yesterday, "Mama, I wish, wish, wish I could be a Mommy Now!" (with much emphasis and impatience in her voice.) I told her God did not intend for 5 year olds to be Mommies to real babies, but she could practice on her dolls and by being a wonderful big sister. 

So since have her own baby is out of the question in her mind, she has decided she wants to adopt from China. She wants to adopt a boy Toby's age and a baby girl. In fact, when we shop at stores she actually looks for stuff to buy them now and asks me if I can buy them today. I tell her she will be able to get many things and I will buy her many things when she does adopt her children.

She also has decided that she does not want to drive. One time I was taking a meal to a friend, whom I had never visited before. It was dark and the house was a little challenging to find. Lenea was along for the ride. I implied that we were lost a little bit and she must have gotten very scared. I was just talking out loud and didn't even realize the impact it had on her. After we left the friend's house (it just took about 2 more minutes and a turn around to get there ) Lenea asked me "What if we were to be lost and never find our way back home?" I assured it that would not happen and that I wasn't really that lost, just confused on what I wrote down for directions. She soon replied that she didn't want to drive ever because she was too afraid that she would get lost. I asked her who would drive her to get the stuff she needed for her babies? She told me "Daddy".. I said "What if Daddy is at work?" she said "Toby" (as Toby says he will always live at home in our basement.).. I said "What if Toby has to work?" she says "you will drive me".. I said "okay, I would love to".. 

Sweet little five year olds.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

My Baby is 5!!

My New Year's Eve baby girl turned 5.

She has been having some whining issues lately. But for some interesting reason the week she turned 5 she matured a lot. She still has some whining we correct and discipline for (the corner is helpful for this problem), but it was like she realized she was bigger now on her own and she shouldn't be that way. One example is that typically she is a picky eater. One evening last week we were having spaghetti and she usually won't eat it and has no problem fussing about it either. As I was making her plate I asked her if she wanted sauce, meat and or cheese on her noodles. She said (I am literally quoting her) "I would like it all, Pretty Mommy". And she was serious. I said "well, okay then!" I gave it all to her and she gobbled it up without one complaint.
She is always asking me as she plays with Asher, (and yes she loves to boss him around), "Mommy, am I being a good big sister to Asher?"

I am so blessed to be her Mommy!! I can't wait to see what God does in her heart and life as she grows up. I know she is going to be a wonderful big sister to Ellie and Isaiah. Happy Birthday My sweet daughter, I love you and I am so happy to watch you grow up.

Here are some photos from her little girl "Tea Party".

 Playing "Cobbler, Cobbler Mend My Shoe"


 Blowing out 5 candles!


Ren and Loe, 2 of her friends.


 Abby and Hannah, 2 more friends.

All the Tea Party Guests.

Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Tonsils No More

Lenea (almost 5 years old) has had a host of sore throats for the last couple of years. Only strep throat officially once or twice. I lost track, as there was 2 years there before the middle 4 got out their tonsils that we were getting strep every other month it seemed like..It was miserable. But since Jake, Toby and Moriah got out their tonsils last year and the year before, no more strep!!

Anyway, Lenea has acid reflux, allergies that produce constant runny nose and sneezes, and sore throats. When she gets a common cold, her tonsils swell up and "hurt" for a week or two after the cold is gone. And she snores.

So, it was off to the ENT. And yep, he suggested she get them pulled and her adnoids were HUGE as well. So last Thursday she got them out. She was really brave. She is getting braver all the time. She also starting getting allergy shots with myself, Jake, Moriah and Toby. In the past she has been terrified of shots of any kind. On her 3 year check up she needed 3 immunizations and there was a very large nurse who held her legs down while another one shot both of her thighs up. She was screaming and kicking from the get-go and of course that made it hurt all the more.

Well this year, she had to give blood to confirm a Tree Nut allergy (yep still has it) and start allergy shots. She has been so brave!! Our allergist's office staff are amazing women, really. Our last allergist was a joke. He was kind enough, but didn't listen to my concerns and questions. He didn't give me clear answers, basically I felt I knew more than he did; and his staff (at least some of them, not all) were rude and slow. We had to wait 30 minutes following each injection. So when there were 6 of us at a time getting shots, weekly at times, and they were slow to give them, we would spend an hour in the waiting room. It became old and my older kids didn't even want to finish their therapy.

Last year I had had enough with the rude nurses and switched doctors. I am so happy to report that these new nurses treat us almost like family (yes, there are still 5 of us coming in and more in the future). They see us weekly, they make the kids laugh and are kind and brag on them for doing such a good job. A big bonus is that it is literally 3 minutes from our house and we ONLY have to wait 20 minutes, plus they are fast. I can even call when we are on the way and let them know, so they prepare our injections ahead of time. I LOVE it..

Anyway, that was a bit of a bunny trail. But my point being that Lenea has been so extremely brave lately. She even smiles when she gets her shots and the allergy nurses are key in that by the way they praise her.

So surgery day she was brave and almost excited. The versed they gave her ahead of surgery, made her quite silly as she was laying in bed watching Sesame Street for the first time in her life. She laughed and laughed and even called them "My Friends" while she touched the screen. It was hard not to laugh at her state.

After surgery her doctor said she did great and had very large adenoids. He wanted to keep her overnight for swelling possibility because of the amount of tissue he removed and her age. I was tired already and didn't really expect it since the other 3 kids got to go home. However, I trust and like our doctor very much. He also did my sinus surgery 18 months ago. He did say that if I felt she was doing really well she may be able to go home early.

Up to pediatrics ward we went. She was greeting with a sweet nurse, a balloon, a school bus bag and a sweet handmade pillow case for her to keep. She was excited. But not so excited as she started getting hungry and they would only allow her to have a clear liquid diet. ( That is only jello, juice, popsicles and broth. ) The first few popsicles were fine, but after that she wanted something else. Her pain was managed "okay" with plain Tylenol (and really has been since surgery). Finally, by 7, she still hadn't slept all day (since waking up at 10:15 or so) and I thought she was doing great, she was just starving. So, I asked the nurse to call the doctor and ask if she could go home that night. It of course took an hour to figure it out, but they did allow her to have a soft diet and I ordered her Mac N. Cheese, which she devoured....We got to go home about 8 that night. It was so great to go home. She had a bit of a rough night those first 2 nights, although not horrible. During the day she has played pretty much all day, but does complain of pain a bit here and there. Her biggest challenge has been she doesn't really want to eat, I don't blame her. But tonight I did take her out to do some Christmas shopping and we stopped and got some French Fries and she loved them. So I think her appetite is coming back, or the pain is getting less.

It has been a night and day difference in her recovery compared to my 2 boys and even her sister, who doesn't really complain when she isn't feeling well anyway. So I am thankful that we got it done now. Age really does seem to make a big difference for littles with surgeries. When they tell you that they bounce back quickly, they really do!! Even with Asher's palate repair back in June, he was playing the next day, although fussy here and there and had sleep issues.

On another side note, Asher is having another surgery January 9th for Lip and Nose Revision. It is an out patient this time and supposed to be an even easier recovery than the palate repair, But it will be an obvious incision for all to see and we will have to do some special things to protect it more and help it not to scar.




Sunday, December 2, 2012

Worship and Consecration

We had an especially worshipful weekend. Eliza, Moriah and Lenea, 3 of our girls, have been taking worship dance and ballet this last semester. It is a wonderful dance school, that we had been a part of years ago for about 5 years. But due to the drive (it takes us about 40 min one way) and the busyness in our lives we had to stop for a time. However, Lenea has been begging me to take dance and I knew Eliza loved it when she took classes before, so we made the weekly sacrifice of driving and spending 4 hours while they each took their lessons every Friday. We plan to do it again this next semester and I hope it works out for the next year. I do know that with Elliana and Isaiah, it might be too hard to manage for some time, so we will see.

This last Friday was the Worship performance. It is always a huge blessing, and a time of sharing testimonies and giving God all the glory. I think I have watched about 8 of these performances and each time I am moved to tears of joy for God's glory. It really is an amazing time.

Here are some of my beautiful daughters worshiping Jesus.

 This was Dress Rehearsal and Lenea is our 4 year old, 2nd from the left.

 This was the actual performance and Lenea is the 3rd from the left. This group was so, so cute.There song was "God Is Good" by Marantha.
Here she is with the red rose her Daddy gave her. She was so excited to be a "real" dancer tonight and not just playing at home.


 Again, dress rehearsal for our 9 year old, Moriah. She is the left in the maroon skirt.

 Moriah, waiting for her turn to go at the performance with her other dancemates.
She is in the middle with the maroon skirt.

 Here they are worshiping to a full house, Moriah is the middle girl, standing a bit forward. Their song was, "So Good To Me", by Shout to the Lord Kids.

 Eliza, our 14 year old, she is doing her dress rehearsal here. She is the brunette in the front with hands stretched out.


 Here is the performance and Eliza is 3rd from the left. This group was large, with 15 girls and their dance was to "Never Underestimate My Jesus", by Relient K.

After LOTS of shopping yesterday grocery and Christmas, we had my mom over for her birthday dinner. Then today at church we had s special service dedicated to children and families. Our church is fairly young and evolving so they had never had a "dedication" of sorts for children. Today we got "caught" up. It will become a more regular event now, but today we had 17 families consecrating a total of 40 children to the Lord. Some of the children are in the home, some in the womb, some in other countries waiting to come home by adoption and some haven't even been revealed yet (families that are starting the adoption process but don't know whom their child will be).

It was a precious time. Our pastor gave a sermon on children and then the Consecration Service began.

We dedicated Lenea and Asher, whom we have not done publicly before now. And we also dedicated Elliana and Isaiah, even though they are yet to legally become our children and are still in China, we want to make known we think of them as our children today and promise to raise them in the admonition of the Lord, for His service and kingdom.



Here we are, with Elliana in the background while we Consecrate her to the Lord.

Lenea

Lenea's name is a version of a family name.. April and her mother both have the middle name "Lenee" (pronounced like Renee with a L beginning) which was derived from April's French Great-Great Grandmother with the last name Mar-Lenee. The meaning of  Lenee is "Light" or "beautiful Light"

Her defining attribute is: Prayerful Advocate
  
Her defining purpose: Lenea's defining purpose to be a light for the weak and helpless . 

Asher

Asher's name means joyful, happy. 

His defining attribute is: Joyful Strength

His defining purpose: Asher's defining purpose it to count it all Joy in the Strength the Lord has given him and be strength for the hopeless.


Elliana


Elliana's name means "God has answered".


Her defining purpose: Elliana's defining purpose is to Be God's Voice for the needy.


Isaiah

Isaiah's name means "God is salvation".

His defining purpose: Isaiah's defining purpose is to share the Good News of God's salvation.